The party was a success. The kids were almost shocked by their cakes. When they first walked in they weren't even sure I made them. It was really funny. I've now got my marching orders for all pink and butterflies for Sydney's cake and a Barbie with a pegasus for Kalyee's cake. We're going to do a double birthday part for them in mid-August.
Click below for party pics and a video of Isaac cutting his cake "to look like wreck".
Jordan's reaction was all teenager--"Cool!" She though the colors, or lack of colors, was very "shakin'" and she wouldn't let anyone near her cake.
They look a little dorky here but it's the best I have. Okay, I have to say something about Jordan's attire. I'm trying to be diplomatic here. I don't know that anyone in my immediate family reads my blog, not that it matters because there's nothing I would say on here that I wouldn't say to their faces, BUT, I'm still going to TRY to be a bit diplomatic. So.... let's say that even though there are more photos and video of Isaac in this post than Jordan, please understand that I adore Jordan. She is my girl that I didn't have. However, I don't feel right about putting a bunch of pics on the internet of a 15-year-old girl who's already been very "blessed" in the "filling out" department who's wearing a shirt I don't feel comfortable with her wearing, let alone being photographed in. I was told the reason she was wearing it was because they played in the pool all day and she had a sunburn so wearing a bra or regular t-shirt "hurt". I understand that but I also understand that it was a birthday party and photos are taken at birthday parties, especially when it's that child's party. If she were my child I would not want a bunch of photos shown of my child wearing a shirt like that. However, she's not my child so I have no control over her, which I am reminded of often. BUT, she's still my niece and part of the reason she has that sour teenaged look on her face is because I refused to take that photo until the top was pulled up to where it is now. I know. Stupid old fuddy duddy Aunt Glenna. Later, I made her put a tank top of mine that I wear to bed on over it so she was at least a little more modest.
Isaac.
Isaac, at first, was almost leery of his cake. It was like it was too much for him to handle. He kept saying "It's a cake?" He didn't get it at first. Then when he finally had been in the house for a while he started getting used to it and warming up to the idea. Then, he totally relaxed and I found him at the cake table actually playing with it. He'd lifted the platter up and was making it move and he made truck noises. We took a bunch of pics and a little video.
I'm going to plug in this video but I almost wasn't going to. You know....what is it about putting an 8-year-old kid next to food that he has to put his fingers up his nose? I don't know either. This party was loads of fun but if you think my family is ever going to come close to any kind of Normal Rockwell depiction or Emily Post column on perfect manners, you're reading the wrong blog. (I ate Jordan's cake, btw, :-))
And now here's the 22 second video of us singing Happy Birthday to them:
And the final video which is about 2 minutes long but fun in that I let each of them cut the first slice, their piece, of the cakes and Isaac is cutting into the hood specifically to make it "look like wreck!"
Thanks for sharing in the planning of this party with me. Hope you had a little fun along the way too.
I've not posted before but I so identify with you and your niece issue. I have a niece who is my girl also. She has the same problem your niece does only she insists on wearing thong undies and low rider pants. Her major weight area is her bottom, tummy and thighs. Needless to say, it's not an attractive sight. I've tried to talk to her as has her mother (who did not make her change clothes). She's now 20 and in college and God only knows how many people have seen her barely covered backside. Hang in there, maybe some day each of our nieces will realize there is a better look. :-)
Posted by: Kay | May 28, 2007 at 03:28 PM
Hi Glenna, I enjoyed the videos and I am happy that Jordan and Isaac like their cakes.
I hear yah about the clothing. Like Kay said, maybe one day they will realise that there is a better look.
Posted by: Cynthia | May 28, 2007 at 05:38 PM
I love the videos! And the cakes....my birthday is next March...:)
I feel your pain with your niece. Having worked in middle schools for the last decade, I am knee deep in an uphill battle everyday. You're support will go a long way. Of course, as a teen, she doesn't see it as support, but she will appreciate it when she gets older.
Posted by: Chris | May 28, 2007 at 06:25 PM
Jordan looks so much better in the white tank you made her put on. I really can't understand how her mom let her wear the other tank out in public. I love the pics of Isaac with the cake. I think this is something that he will look back on for a long time and remember how you took the time to do that for him.
Posted by: sher | May 28, 2007 at 09:22 PM
Kay--thanks for posting. It's nice to know I'm not the only one out there concerned for Jordan. She's a lovely girl. It worries me to see her dressing like that.
Cynthia--Yes, I think this falls under one of those things of picking my battles. I got the other shirt on her so the rest of the pics aren't so obscene but I'm not her mom so it's not my place to really dress her down, so to speak.
Chris--Thanks! Oh I hear you. I have a friend who's a high school English teacher and she has horror stories about some of the clothing choices she sees. We've often discussed whether the parents are encouraging the no clothes dressing or if all of those girls are changing when they get out of the house.
Sher--thanks. I really hope they do. That's my intention anyway.
Posted by: Glenna | May 28, 2007 at 11:31 PM
It is times like this I am reminded how glad I am that I only have boys (who I have to work to keep out of skulls, fire and camo all the time, but not nearly as big an issue as skin!)
Good for you for taking a stance with your niece!
Your cakes looks wonderful and both of them are so luck to have had you done that for them!
Posted by: Jenny | May 29, 2007 at 08:56 AM
Great job on the cakes! As for your adorable niece, I can tell you from personal experience that part of the problem is in the stores. Even though I'm no longer a teen, I still often find myself, because of my curves, stuck between wearing what's in style for my age group, which doesn't really fit and makes me look skanky, or wearing clothes that are cut for my body type but that add ten years. It's not a happy feeling, knowing that you're either going to look like you raided your little sister's closet or your mother's.
Posted by: TexanNewYorker | May 29, 2007 at 09:14 AM
That's a great photo, actually. The smirk is classic teenager -- clothing issues or not -- and your poor nephew does look overwhelmed by the awesomeness of his cake.
Posted by: Kate | May 29, 2007 at 12:47 PM
Kyleen-- I hear you. I have taken the nieces shopping and they get real bent out of shape with me because I won't buy half of what they want because their friends wear that crap and it is about all you find as far as super cute trendy things. But still.
Kate--Good point about the sneer.
Posted by: Glenna | May 29, 2007 at 03:54 PM
Jenny--Thanks! And I envy you those boys right now. LOL! I'd love to have to worry about skulls. But hey, I'm sure you'll catch up with us at some point during the teenaged years. :-)
Posted by: Glenna | May 30, 2007 at 05:16 AM
The kiddos have a great auntie, on many levels! ;-) Good job looking out for their best interests -- whether that's a fantastic birthday cake or modest dress. She may not understand it now, I sure didn't back then, but hopefully will grow to appreciate it on a future day!
Posted by: Fruittart | May 30, 2007 at 12:41 PM