Has anyone else watched this show? And specifically the Bridezilla episode?
I can't get the actual video to embed but here's the link to view the entire episode:
http://tlc.discovery.com/videos/cake-boss-bi-plane-bridezilla-busting-buddy.html
I was shocked by that young lady's behavior. Seriously in shock. And you know what? Even after reading other people's reactions and speculation that she had been encouraged by the producers to act out to create buzz about the show...I'm still shocked. It wasn't just her destroying that cake and saying deadpan "Well maybe now you have a better idea of what I want."
It was also the way she and the mother disrespected each other all during the meeting about the cake design. I don't believe for second they were good enough actresses to fake that dysfunctional relationship. If I were the bride I would have been upset, too, by my mother's complete dismissal of my desires. The mother even admitted "I was married at city hall so this is going to be nice." Okay, so basically, the mom is reliving HER wedding, not trying to please her daughter.
On the other hand, when your parents are paying for a function for you, I think it's at least appropriate for you to show a little gratitude and flexibility, or at least graciousness.
During the meeting, Bridezilla did express that she didn't want traditional but she also said "Yeah, that looks good" when Buddy did the drawing and she did leave him with the impression that she was fine. It's not his fault she and the mother have relationship problems.
I couldn't believe it when he said he'd do another cake EXCEPT the mother did say she'd pay for another cake. So at least he was paid for it. But I was still shocked that the parents would even ask him to rebake the cake the day before the wedding and even more shocked that the mom didn't seem upset with the daughter about her behavior. How can you be surprised that a young woman is a selfish, disrespectful brat when you've let her get away with it her whole life? So I'm not just appalled by the bride's behavior but by how the mom was just like "Oh honey, come look at the new cake..." and when the little witch wouldn't, she just laughed it off to Buddy. I'd be so embarrassed to have people see what a horrible person I raised I wouldn't have let them show us in that episode. If that would have been my kid, for one I wouldn't have totally ignored her wishes, but also I would never have rewarded that kind of behavior. I would have said "Fine. We'll have no cake or serve the cake you "redecorated"." And if Buddy had volunteered to remake it I would have paid him extra and said to the surly piece of shit I raised "Get you butt in here and thank this man for being nice to you when you don't deserve it."
Loved the line from Buddy about "I only have one thing to say to the groom: Good luck, brother."
No kidding.